The most common Enneagram is Type 9, also known as the Peacemaker. This personality type is calm and easygoing, and can often be seen avoiding conflicts and walking away from confrontations. Type 9s are seen as dependable and often put other people’s needs before their own.
They are friendly and accepting, and try to keep the environment around them peaceful. They don’t like to draw attention to themselves and often keep their opinions to themselves. This can sometimes make them seem distant, but Type 9s are, in reality, very caring and supportive.
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Which Enneagram is the most rare?
With nearly nine million people having completed tests to determine their Enneagram type, it can be difficult to pinpoint which one is the most rare. Generally speaking, the types that are seen as the rarest are the Enneagram 4, or the Individualist, and the Enneagram 8, or the Challenger.
According to research, only 5% of the population will have a main type of 4 and less than 10% of the population is an 8.
Individualists (Enneagram 4) are known for their introspective and strong emotionality. They often feel misunderstood and perceive themselves as special or unique. They are very creative and gravitate towards anything that allows them to express themselves authentically.
Challengers (Enneagram 8) are outgoing, assertive, and decisive. They possess a strong sense of justice and often stand up for their beliefs. They tend to dominate and control in order to protect themselves against feeling vulnerable.
Although Enneagrams 4 and 8 are seen as the most rare, any type can be considered somewhat rare, as the population varies. However, these two types have the lowest percentage of test takers globally.
Is Type 1 Enneagram rare?
Type 1 Enneagram is not necessarily rare, but the type itself is the least common—about 5-7% of all Enneagram types represented in the population. Type 1s are conscientious and ethical, with a strong sense of right and wrong.
They are principled, driven, and perfectionistic. They strive for perfection and often have very high standards for themselves and others. Type 1s are viewed as rational, idealistic, and principled, with a focus on growth, betterment, and improvement.
They tend to work hard and can be highly organized and efficient. On the downside, they can be overly perfectionistic and rigid, with difficulty tolerating messes. They can also be judgmental, cynical, and self-critical.
Type 1 Enneagram is a complex personality type that is often difficult to understand, however, it can also be extremely rewarding as Type 1s strive for excellence and consistency to achieve their goals.
What Enneagram is hardest to love?
It is difficult to say which Enneagram type is the hardest to love as there can be a number of factors that go into how people emotionally connect with others. That being said, some research has indicated that Enneagram types 4, 5, and 8 may be more challenging for some to emotionally connect with.
Four’s can often be seen as moody, sensitive, and self-absorbed which can reflect negatively on their relationships with others. Fives on the other hand, can come across as detached, intellectual, and private, which may make it harder for them to emotionally connect with others.
Finally, Eights tend to be very independent and direct, which can lead to feelings of being misunderstood or not appreciated by their partners.
Regardless of their type, people can always find ways to create better connections. Developing self-awareness of one’s own needs as well as endeavoring to learn more about the needs of their partner can help strengthen relationships.
Creating healthier boundaries and intentionally making time to be a supportive presence can also be beneficial when it comes to relationships. Practicing patience and acceptance of yourself and your partner can be a great foundation for creating more meaningful, connected relationships.
Which Enneagram number is manipulative?
No Enneagram number is inherently manipulative; however, traits associated with particular Enneagram numbers can lend themselves to manipulative behavior. People with a Three personality are driven by a need for success and recognition, which can lead to them manipulating situations or people to achieve their goals.
People with a Five personality are often perfectionists and have difficulty expressing their needs to others—which can make them more susceptible to being manipulated by others. People with a Seven personality seek comfort in external stimulation and will sometimes use manipulation as a way of ensuring they get what they want.
People with a Eight personality are often seen as the leaders of their group and are known for taking a decisive and often intimidating approach to getting what they want, sometimes leading to manipulative behavior.
While it is ultimately up to the individual how they choose to use their Enneagram type, it is important to be aware of which traits can open the door to manipulative behavior.
